Plus One

I have never been asked to be a ‘Plus One’ but I’m pretty sure it’s not supposed to go like this…

Him: you are going to Spain for the new year right?

Me: I'll be back before new years, I'm just in Spain for Christmas

Him: mm, it’s my Aunt’s Wedding
…you are welcome to come, not sure how weird it would be though

Does that really count as an ‘invite?’ It sounded more like a dare to me. I understand meeting families can always be a bit dicey. Of all people, I understand this. Hell, half of my family hasn’t learned how to chew with their mouth closed (you can pick your friends but you can’t pick your family.)

To make this sound like even less of an invitation there was no real date given other than ‘new years,’ making me question if his invitation to said wedding even includes a plus one behind it. Either way it is months away but new years in New Orleans doesn’t sound too bad.